Have I forsaken the fellowship? I have a confession. I have not attended a local church for about seven years now. Before this I was a youth pastor for about four years and helped in youth ministry for about another three years. This doesn’t include my own time spent in my own youth group from the age of sixteen and my two years at Bible College.
Yet with this background I have not even the slightest desire to attend a local church. So, have I forsake the fellowship? Have I not kept the instruction from scripture that says we are not to forsake coming together as believers?
Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing,
I can not tell you how many times I have had this quoted to me or something very similar to it since I have stopped going to the local church. But the question still remains, have I violated this instruction? Have I stopped coming together with believers, since I do not do it at a local church?
Even though I meet with my family and other believers for worship and the study of scripture, I am sure there are those who think this is insufficient to count as meeting together with other believers.
It is assumed by those that tell me to get back into fellowship with other believers, that it needs to happen within a church. Mostly because they feel that is where the believers gather. The more believers that gather, the more fellowship can happen, the more I keep this instruction in scripture.
But if this is true, that the larger the gathering the more the command is kept to keep the fellowship, then are not those in small churches not as obedient to keep the instruction as those in larger churches. How about those in mega churches, are they the ones who uphold this instruction better than all of us? If after all, the larger the gathering of believers the more fellowship can take place, right?
I know I have taken it too far. The point to be made is, I need to get involved in a local body of believers, in the minds of many, in order to keep the instruction of not forsaking the fellowship.
But is it I who has taken it too far or is it those who preach not forsaken the fellowship who have taken it too far? I can not find in scripture where I am instructed that the local church is the fellowship I need to seek out. Nor is it the mega church. I can find nothing in scripture that speaks of what I am to consider fellowship, oh except for this one.
For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them.”
Well, well, well I guess the minimal number of keeping the instruction of not forsaking the fellowship would be two. Whew, was I getting worried. I guess all those who run around telling individuals like me to quit forsaking the fellowship, have not considered what Jesus has said. It takes two and even up to three sometimes to come together for Jesus to be in their midst.
You have heard it said.
“Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.
But we say.
“Again, I tell you that if the local church on earth agrees about anything it ask for, it will be done for it by my Father in heaven.
Apparently the Father does not consider the local body any more affective in fellowship, prayer and impacting this old world, as he does the two or three that have Christ in their midst.
How about this for a turn around? We the groups of two or three have just as much calling and ear of the Father to change the world let alone to have our lives impacted by Christ.
Step aside big boys and let the little guys change the world. WE HAVE WASTED ENOUGH TIME BEING MANIPULATED BY YOU ALREADY!
 Mathew 18:20
 Matthew 18:19